What most wives don't understand is how much happier they would be if they submitted to their husbands. There is security there. It is the natural leaning of the female species. The only marriages that are truly happy are the ones with wives who (voluntarily) submit themselves to the leaderships of their men and with men who are ready and willing to take up command. It is necessary for most couples to understand that there is a place for spanking and other forms of physical discipline. That submissiveness does not equal inequality and does not have to be infantilizing. There are simply different roles for the genders in a heterosexual relationship.